There's no doubt about it. The Germans know how to do the best bdsm. You give a sub everything she needs and craves. You push her to her limits and beyond but she always, always has the freedom to use her safety words if she needs to. No matter how she is used or degraded, the sub is always in control because she submits of her own free will. She is in a safe place to set her body and soul free. A sub and a Dom fulfill each others needs. They are nothing without each other. They need each other.